林子的博客

      难道作家都是不善口头表达的吗？

      ————导致他的思想，他的作品沉睡了百年，几个世纪乃至千年，才会有人慢慢读懂他的声音！

      他们为什么要把自己放在这样的高度——是不愿与人交流？是自己太清高？还是真的不能被人理解？

        其实没有人愿意孤立自己，相反他很乐意把自己的痛苦、心声、愿望诉说给他的朋友，他的亲人，他的爱人听。他很乐意。当他在搏击人生的时候，他带着一身的疲惫，带着一身的忧伤，带着一身的委屈，他需要找一个宁静的港湾，他需要休憩，需要一个懂他支持他的人，默默为他解开一些心灵的死结，好让他有了清晰的思路去迎接第二天的黎明。

         马云说：“今天很残酷，明天很残酷，后天很美好，有的人死在明天晚上，看不到后天的太阳”。其实死亡没有什么可怜，没有看到后天的太阳没有什么可惜，真正可悲的是当死亡的时候，一个人带着未能被理解的思想、心情和没能留下让后人解读他走向末路的苦闷的著作含恨而死！

        “今天很残酷”，今天你是否有了目标，是否做出了果断的决定，是否采取了行动，狭路相逢勇者胜！畏缩不前的人，没有目标的人，不采取行动的人会死得很惨。

        “明天很残酷”，明天你是否依然是你？你坚持了吗，你顶住压力了吗，你的朋友、爱人、亲人懂你了吗？其实你需要战胜的是你自己，没有人是你肚子里的“蛔虫”，爱人可以不理解你，不会自动心甘情愿的为你长久的做你需要做的事情，让你心头的死结越结越大，然后偶然给你来个温柔一刀，你挺得过这一关吗？当所有的事情都需要你亲自去实行，当所有的事情都需要你亲自去指挥，当你的言辞不够华丽、身体不够强壮、苍白无力的嘴唇打动不了你的崇拜者的时候，你选择了从高楼变成一只蝴蝶一跃而下，还是选择与爱人背道而驰，还是选择与朋友恩断意绝？圣人也会有顶不住的时候发疯，甚至发狂。你会是圣人的圣人吗？

          “后天很美好”，因为我看到了阴云过后的晴天、看到了黎明依然在、太阳依然从东方升起，因为我体会了登山不再是那么艰难，当我站在山巅，那远处有我从来也没有见过的奇景。我在为她而兴奋！我可以把憋在心底已久的废气，在这人烟稀少的山巅痛快的吼出，让我体会面前毫无阻隔的快乐！

        也许到了“后天”的时候，我依然是我，依然需要艰难独行，但我不再需要像作家，整日对着白纸诉说。我可以自言自语，也许会引来几个听众吧？

          

上海有做数控培训的做成这样吗

 

 

上海文琦数控模具培训五周年庆

 

 

       上海文琦数控模具培训，转眼走过了五个春秋。

        昨天，2010年岁末和2011年新春的部分学员欢聚在一起，共同为文琦数控模具培训的五岁生日祝寿。学员们个个喜笑颜开，高兴万分。

When I'm remembering to look my personal blog, I found that I haven't write a feeling here for ages.

Recently I contact more my classmates who I've ever lived with them together, when someone remind me that the time have passed roughly seventeen yeears after we graduated from our Teacher's School, I suddenly felt I'm getting old. Then, think about my life minutely, I don't know what I'm persisting now. Where is my dream, where is my target, where is my destination of my life. Some of my classmate suggested that we could make a party to celebrate our meeting again after a long separation, but I'm scared, I feel shy to meet my old classmates. Cuz I didn't succeed, where is my reputation?Even though, I don't have a car, don't have a house, don't have satisfied income.

I'm so sharply feel the importance of needing money this year, I don't know why. So i try to make money in different way in my part time. I faild on some projects, but I've never give up another one in my mind. I think I could succeed if I find a good project and manage it in a good way. I hope my success. I hope that I will be a successful man when I stand on the stage of our meeting again party. I'm looking for it.

 

Today I went to Dagang town of Songjiang Disctrict to do my part time job. At noon, finally the boss of that company invite me have launch with them. There have four strange people, three of them are friends of the leader of that company's technique department, another one is one of that company's customer who ever had special leadership with Linbiao's son-Lin Liguo, but now he is a company's boss. He introduced himself to us that he has 58 years old, but his body looks strang. He also is good at drinking beer. I sat beside him, he said that his monther-in-law also is my townee, so he challenged me to drink beer. But I'm really not good at drinking, then he told me his story that  he was drunk someday. I know he didn't exaggerate it, also he told me how did he get the order from his customer after he was drunk. He got experience from drinking, he said:" if you want to make money, you must have to learn how to be a good man or woman." His words and his saying was so touching, even had a big influence on me. So, I was beginning thinking myself, I had weakness  with my leader on relationship, with other people that I dislike them. He told me that society is another big college, we can learn many many thing from there which are very useful and you have to learn, if you want to do a undertaking or an enterprise. I began to think my past life, it was not very streight, but I've already had a plan of my life, even there had many many difficulty. I knew my weakness was not good at expressing. I learned so many personal skills in order to be alive, but  my lack of expressing makes me upset. So I've already decided to learn some expression skills and manage skills when I graduated learning English from Englishtown.

I didn't write here for a long time, it was so sorry with my Blog.

Today I'm think of my goal of my life, what is my goal? Yesterday night, I had a online conversation, we talked about  how to give and ask for suggestions. It seems simple, but in some satuation, you would have no ideas about above two questions. For example, when you got to a crossroad, did you drive through the red light or just stopped there and wait? did you  turn left or turn right? Because you have your plan, you have your goal, so maybe you need to go ahead, cross over the crossroad, but there has a transportation rule right there need you to follow, what do you do then?

What did I say? It's far away from my topic? No, actually it's related to my topic. I mean sometimes we have to go around our goals, we can't do it directly. and maybe sometimes we don't even know what is the appropriate job we can do, we need to try it and then knew it. For me, several years ago, I was a primary school and a middle school teacher, I loved my students, but I knew that job didn't suit me. so I left my job and then went into a Taiwan boss's company, I spent three years in that company, it was my first company. I did logistics/physical distribution there, and I found that job didn't suit me as well. After that, I learned some cumputers skills, learned some design skills, so  I found a design job, day by day I found myself was interested in that job. Even now, I still stick at design in automobile field. I have a goal, I will be a senior design in five years.

I don't know how design job difficult in my career, but I am not afraid of obstacle of problems. I will do my best to work in this field.

It's not what you say but how you say it, we call this intonation. It include three basic side: volume, stress and pitch. Pay attention on volume, it shows if somebody has extreme moods or emotions, they will tend to make their voice louder. Think about someone shouting because they are furious or overjoyed. The second is stress, it dependents on what part of the sectence is important to the speaker, how they are feeling, and what they want to tell us. The third is pitch, it shows your voice rises and falls. It can helps you to convey the meaning.

 So, because of intonation, we need to be careful our speaking. It may really have different meaning when you used different pitch, volume and stress in the same sentence. For example, when you are shouting at something, it can means you are very excited, it can also shows you are very furious. Another example, if you broke up with your girlfriend, you would feel depressed, perhaps feel astonished--because she loved another guy but she didn't let you know until you knew it. However, depressed and astonished totally have different extreme moods and emotions.

Finally, we may go through these word to discuss or to  guess what differences between them: bored, composed, furious, frustrated, astonished, excited, irritated, anxious and nervous and so on.

The topic is " What's new"

In this class, we learned where do the informations, talking resources come from. We can use five ways as below to get informations what we want. Eavesdropping, first hand, word of mouth, rumor and gossip. But which one is more effictive and more legal? Eavesdropping means to listen to others conversations secretly and without others permission; word of mouth means to spread imformations by oral communication, it's not formal; rumor means to leble somebody for getting informations; gossiping means to get informations by free talking and discuss other's secret. So, I think the way of first hand is more formal, legal and real.

So, how might you respond to these questions:

1. What's new with you?

2. Alright?

3. What's going on with you?

4. How is everything with you?

5. How've you been?

6. What's up?